About
Hi, I’m Rai.
Founder of Beyond the Breakup, author, and someone who has been where you are.
My story
A breakup changed my life
Years ago, a breakup changed my life. I wanted answers. I wanted one more conversation. I wanted anything but the silence.
Slowly, and often painfully, I learned to let go. Those hardest days became the beginning of my healing, and of a deeper faith than I had ever known.
Since then I’ve written Finding Beauty Beyond the Breakup and The Invitation, and I’ve walked alongside women through some of the hardest seasons of their lives.
Beyond the Breakup is everything I wish someone had handed me back then: practical help, gentle encouragement, and the reminder that God has not left you.
Rai
Where they came from
The Resilience Monsters
The Resilience Monsters came from that journey. They are a way of naming what feels too big, so you can see it clearly and remember that you have practical, collaborative and spiritual resources to cut it down to size.
What you’ll find here
Gentle, practical, faith-filled
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